Tag Archive: Women of the Wall

A Debt of Gratitude for the Women Who Opened the Doors

By Rabbi Marla J. Feldman, October 2013 When I was ordained in 1985, women rabbis were still rather rare. I was the first woman rabbi in every congregation I served in the 1980s, and in most cases I was the first and only woman rabbi in that city. I looked to the women who preceded…

Two Halves, One Whole

By Shelly F. Cohen, October 2013 The first time I stood on the bima was when I became bat mitzvah in a Conservative shul. At that time, 40-some years ago, it seemed likely that would be the last time I’d be on the bima as well – there were no women clergy (that I knew…

The B’nai Mitzvah of Two Generations as a Metaphor for Equality

By Sandra Cuttler, October 2013 When my children were growing up in the 1980s and 1990s, we belonged to a “traditional” synagogue, which some people would call “Conservadox.” During the many years that we were members, the synagogue did not allow females to read from the Torah during services. It was important to me that…

Up and Down, No and Yes

By Dr. Judith B. Tischler, October 2013 I recently turned 80 (gvurot). I grew up in a traditional Orthodox home, rebelled, and became a member of Hashomer Hatzair (Youth Guard). My first real taste of women’s equality was in that youth movement. At the time, the dream was life in a kibbutz with a lifestyle…

My Most Memorable Service

By Robert Levy, October 2013 It was on a trip to Australia in December with a group of friends. We were exactly 10 people, 5 men and 5 women. I had Yahrzeit for my father and I wanted to say Kaddish, so we needed a minyan of 10 worshipers. Jewish tradition asks for 10 men…

Be the Change

By Cantor Linda Shivers, October 2013 I have lived through a lot of change. I have felt a lot of the growing pains through the changes, but I am proud of all that has been accomplished for Jewish women in the majority of American synagogues. I have seen changes in the treatment and attitudes toward…

What full partnership in Judaism means in Israel

By Ilan Chaim, October 2013 The goal of furthering women’s rights in the secular realm is not the same goal as women becoming full partners in modern Judaism. Eliminating various glass ceilings and ensuring equal pay for equal work is attainable through legislation. But for a woman to become a full partner in the modern…

Being the First Bat Mitzvah at Shaare Zion Synagogue

By Marion L. Usher, October 2013 I grew up In Montreal, Quebec in a mostly Jewish neighborhood. I say mostly, since we had no contact with the families of other faiths. My father helped build the first Conservative congregation in our new neighborhood. Both parents were totally immersed in synagogue life. Our parents kept us…

The Voices of God

By Mike Rahimi, October 2013 I was raised in an Orthodox Shul in Queens. I thought nothing of the separation of men and women, that’s how it always was. I left Synagogue at 13, when I was told I became a man and could make my own decisions. It was WRT in Scarsdale and Rabbi…

Our Cantor Is Pregnant

By Laura Diamond, October 2013 Growing up, my family belonged to a Reconstructionist synagogue, Kehillat Israel. Beginning in pre-school, I learned that one of Reconstructionism’s hallmarks is the equality of women and men, including the first Bat Mitzvah. This was my proud inheritance, and my lived experience of Judaism was blissfully removed from the inequalities…